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A Lesson From My Plants: Part 1

 My grandma has been on my mind a lot lately. I am not sure why, as she died several years ago. (Perhaps it has to do with missing my mom) I go to think about one thing and then wonder if I got that from my grandma. 


As I started to write this post, I mused over where my love for plants came from. Grandma. Now my love and her love are not in the same hemisphere. She had plants throughout her house and a gorgeous well manicured yard. I have never cared too much about a yard and I only have some plants. However, I don’t consider my plants expendable. So when life dealt me a trick hand, my plants, all of them, had to come along for the ride. They were by no means happy- disturbed from their places of habitat and their constant tropic heat. But almost all of them were resilient throughout the journey. 



Part 1: The plant that wasn’t. This plant didn’t have it hard at all. So when I looked at it the other day, I mused over what could be amiss. Some of my plants had to stay in the car multiple 90 degree days…but not this one. It always had enough water, and actually turned this way in the new environment.

Now this is the plant that was blooming in December after months of neglect. Those blooms were such a source of hope. God can do anything, no matter the situation. 



But sometimes God chooses not to intervene. And things die. Question is, how do we respond when things die? What does that do to our faith?

 I plan to throw the bulb in a pot outside. If it blooms from the dirt, so be it! If it doesn’t, oh well! I know the plant has what it takes to be resilient. It bloomed on its own in a cold empty house! The plant is beautiful when it blooms, but it’s dying.


Sometimes things in our life are dead, or not growing, or refusing to bloom because they don’t want to. And instead of moving on, we sit and try to coach the dead, the disinterested, the divested thing- learn from me and my plant. Move on!

Now for anyone worried or concerned that this is the fate of all the plants, stay tuned. There is a space for pruning, patience, and renewal, but you have to discern the situation. If it’s move on time, stop hesitating and bloom beyond!




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